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Even though I am a silly,

Even though I am a silly, goofy person, I feel like I'm so boring when I do studies with my teenage nephews. I want so much for them to get the point and I have to force myself to stay somewhat light-hearted and patient too. Would love to get in on the "game" secrets and share that with them. I'm sure it would help a lot! Thanks for these amazing resources :)

Games are one of my favorite

Games are one of my favorite parts of our services. I love putting together a game and then sit back and watch everyone have a blast! Sometimes it's hard to make a game be teachable without it being corny but it's definitely possible and worth the effort. Hint: Minute to win it games are great. They are quick and pretty easy to set up and the kids love them. Try not to get the same volunteers all the time. Try to persuade those who don't want to look foolish to join in. It will really help them open up and deepen their relationship with the group. I love to laugh and games are a great way to show that christians aren't just stuffed shirts. We can have fun and laugh while glorifying God at the same time!

RONNIE: seriously! KATRINA:

RONNIE: seriously! KATRINA: games are my downfall also, I'm the most unfun person on the plannet....well, I may be more fun than librarians or M.I.T. grad students...but only barely. When it's not a strength, it's even more important to give it everything you've got, being confident....assuming you're the leading the greatest game ever. It's tough, but it's worth it. AND, if you can find someone who is awesome at it, that's cool too. MO: it's great that you had a student speak their mind... that's a perfect opportunity to follow up with a one on one conversation... explore what they are thinking and where they got that thinking from ... of course life is supposed to be fun and it's ok to have fun at church programs .... and, there needs to be serious stuff also ... but MORE IMPORTANTLY than what the program ought to look like, I would see what motivated that super spiritual student to say what they did... no matter which way they go, there is an opportunity for you to help them grow... as being so rigid and dogmatic and dropping ultimatums is WONDERFUL opportunity to help him or her gain a little wisdom... this is a quick answer...drop me an email with a little more information if you want matt [at] youthministry [dot] com

and by "stone ages" you mean

and by "stone ages" you mean when Doug was in his second or third year of ym?

Games are my downfall! I

Games are my downfall! I understand that they can be really good at helping creating a group, but I still find them so hard.

i am new to being a youth

i am new to being a youth pastor and would like to see someone make dvd that shows brief clips of a bunch of games. I can read about the game but it would be so much easier to see them played.

Pastor i just wanted to find

Pastor i just wanted to find out if its wrong to have fun in church but i need facts cause i was so distrubed this Friday at youth. I am a youth leader at church and i was busy praying for another youngster away from the actual meeting but when i returned everyone was so serious cause one of the youngsters(who is very spiritual) got up and said that youth isnt about fun and games its serious and although i agree that there is a time for really being serious which we allow for each week i didnt feel that we must always be serious. So everyone is walking on eggshells and getting really serious and i love the Lord and am so used of enjoying the presence of the Lord but now everyone is moving away from playing games in youth.Am I wrong?

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