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If I am doing it the way I

If I am doing it the way I want, I use a game to give structure to my middle school boys small group. They don't like to talk (usually) but they can talk about how the game was like the scripture.

my gut says to lean more

my gut says to lean more towards activities where winning and loosing isn't emphasized... If it's "most" of the kids, this probably the route to go... If it's a few of the kids...try talking with them one on one before the games / program...set them up by trying to get their expectations realistic ... I'm definitely not an expert with elem kids!! we need someone else to chime in with more experience!!

How do you deal with kids who

How do you deal with kids who hate to lose. I deal mostly with Elem kids and when they lose, even though I never try to make it a big deal nor allow the others to make it a big deal, they begin to cry or recede into a distant place. When prizes are involved it gets even worse.

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