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For Andi, I understand where

For Andi, I understand where you are coming from. I have been doing youth ministry (focused primarily on Jr. High) for about 25 years now. The last 14 years, or so, my wife and I have done this ministry together. I am afraid that our passion has at the very least intimidated people in the past. Now we had no idea that this was happening, but once we realized it, we went to those people and tried to make sure everything was OK between us. I really have to watch myself and not get upset or at least visibly upset about what seems to be lack of passion in others. We are a part of a Church that runs about 800 on any given Sunday. Four years ago, we were running about 140 at our Jr High and High School youth meeting night and were in the process of growing through Small Groups. About Three years ago, our YM made the decision to cancel all small groups. We tried to talk to him about this, but he said his mind was made up. We lost many leaders who felt they no longer had a part to play and we lost many youth. We fell to about 40 on our Youth meeting night. Now, with a new YM and Small Groups reinstated, we are slowly growing. We are also getting ready to do our first training of Small Group Leaders. I think this is most important. When it comes to your situation, don't be afraid to lay down expectations. I believe that without expectations of your Small Group leaders and other volunteers, they may feel lost and not really know what to do. With these expectations in place they will at least know what they are expected to do. If they don't know how to get it all done, then they will realize that they need some training. Hopefully, this makes them more motivated to actually attend training when it's offered. I'll be praying for you as you attempt to recruit volunteers. Remember, be patient with your volunteers, give them expectations, and offer them training and make sure that they know that you have an open door if they have any questions or problems. I hope this helps... Doug

Andi, I think I understand

Andi, I think I understand what you are saying. I'm afraid that my passion for Youth Ministry has at the very least intimidated others. I have to be careful not to get upset too much at what appears to be a lack of concern (lack of passion) from others involved in the Youth Ministry. This is a constant battle. I care so much for the Youth, and I believe that they deserve small group leaders who are passionate about connecting with the youth in their groups. We are a Church that runs about 800 on a Sunday. We used to have about 140 Junior High and High School Youth on our meeting nights, but that number fell off to about 40 three years ago when our YM decided to cancel our Small Groups. Many leaders left, feeling they no longer had a job and many of the youth stopped coming. Now, with Small Groups reinstated and a new YM in place, who is committed to seeing relationships built through Small Groups, we are slowly growing. I hurt for the youth that we lost from the program and the committed adults who understood the importance of building relationships in a Small Group. We have much to do to train those here now about that importance. I pray for you, that committed volunteers will step forward and that you can effectively lead them into an understanding of the importance of their jobs. Don't forget that it sometimes helps to lay out expectations. Without expectations, sometimes volunteers feel lost. If they understand their expectations, but don't know how to do them, then they realize that they can benefit from training. If you get someone who wants to do it and is willing to be trained how; the battle is mostly won... Doug

Great article...I plan to

Great article...I plan to link to it.

I like youth mission

I like youth mission

Doug and Matt... first let me

Doug and Matt... first let me say thank you for the many ways that you have been an encouragement in my walk and ministry! You have been a source of lifegivng water in my life. second, let me "push back" a little with this statement! :) "Joyful people take less time to get recharged and refreshed." I'm not sure that "less time" is exactly correct. It may be slightly more accurate to say that people who maintain appropriate rythms of health and refreshment find that they have a more consistent joy and enegy level for the work they are doing. So that when they are engaged in a time of refreshment it is less like recovering from a major illness, and more like getting a good nights sleep. It seems to take less time, but really you are starting from a far better place in terms of your spiritual, emotional, physical, social etc health. Those times in my ministry when the joy, passion, and energy have faded have been because i have neglected the critical routines which sustain life and health. It is following this neglect that a longer "convalesence" becomes necessary. Praying that God will sustain you guys and all my fellow team-members! Jon

I am the new youth pastor at

I am the new youth pastor at a small church I hae been a member of for about 7 years. It is easy to get discouraged sometimes when you feel like you are alone - but remember - you aren't. The Lord is with you through it all. The devil attacked our church (in my opinion) because we had a strong youth ministry - passionate leaders, growing attendance. When it was all over with, many of the youth were gone and most of the leaders. My pool of volunteer resources is mostly people ages 60+ so I can understand some of the challenges. I am the last person I thought would ever work with youth because it was just not something I was comfortable with and that may be where a lot of adults are. Once I started helping the youth ministry team I saw such a need for the work we do. Many of the young people in the churches seem to come from broken homes, homes where there is little if any faith ... we have an awesome opportunity to not only reach the kids for the kingdom but also their families if we allow the Holy Spirit to work through us. There are a lot of resources available to help, too... Group and Simply Youth Ministry have a lot of good materials and freebies. Maybe you can be the light in your churches to show just how important the youth are to Christ and to the future of Christianity... youth ministry is an investment in the youth and the church. Without youth there will be no church of tomorrow.

What great reminders and

What great reminders and encouragement. Came at the perfect time, thanks guys!

Could not agree more, passion

Could not agree more, passion will carry you through the rough and tumble times, the good and the bad. Why? Because passion mixed with calling, thrives as you connect and dig in. Instead of over whelmed, you become fired up, energized to find the solution, or your heart pours over what you need to do next or better to minister to your team and your students. You think about it throughout your day and dream about it at night. A heart connected passionately to one's call, attracts the answer from the Holy Spirit, and doesn't want to rest until it finds God's will for whatever the situation. Coupled that with helping release the calling and passion in you helpers, the ministry thrives in growing stronger, deeper, and more impact full as your vision/passion catches fire with those around you. Fueling a sense of purpose and calling in one’s life, even if for just a season.

i have been a youth pastor

i have been a youth pastor for nearly 2 years now. this summer i have an intern to help me do some of the daily stuff so that i can take time to do some big picture stuff and really rework some of the weaknesses in our ministry. it seems like every week we talk about one thing, and the next week that is exactly what the topic is in the youthministry.com "daily". the daily has been one of the most valuable resources for youth ministry that i've had to date. i just wanted to say thanks!!

Great article guys, passion

Great article guys, passion with purpose all the way.

"Passionate leaders attract

"Passionate leaders attract other leaders" I'm afraid at our church, that's not true. My own passion for children and youth seems to have terrified others. As I try to recruit other adults to help out - they just run the other way. I am tempted to suggest this fall, that if others don't step up, we will not start programming - yet the ones most hurt by this are the kids - mine included. Getting parents to come to a meeting or training has been an exercise in futility. Compound that with our pastor being on sabbatical, so summer numbers are way down. We are a small church to begin with. Any suggestions?

These daily thoughts are a

These daily thoughts are a blessing. They keep us youth staff in the loop and gives us fresh thoughts from outside our Church(not that inside the Church is bad) of ways to reach our kids. Keep up the good work!

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